A pick up artist is a man who can attract women by doing and saying certain things. You can’t become a pick up artist overnight because it’s an on-going process. It is different than becoming good at anything else, be it playing sport or a musical instrument. You need a lot of time to learn and put what you learn into practice. There are a great number of things that you need to know to become an expert pick up artist. However, here we are going to share four most important things that you can quickly learn. You can use these things to be successful with women. Here are these things.
1: Remember The Basic Principles of Attraction and Seduction
In order to attract women, you will need to use fancy conversational techniques. Some of these techniques will help you a lot in attracting women, while some of these techniques will distract you. The key here is to use the basic principles of attraction and seduction. You have to remember following things:- Never show that you are a type of man who depends on outcome when talking to a woman. Make sure women see you as someone who has lots of social value, regardless of whether you are talking to women or not.
- Women are attracted to those men who have the two sets of main qualities: they are confident, experienced, self-assured, recognized leader (a.k.a alpha male), and they are protective, caring, emotionally intelligent, reliable partner. Most women want the perfect combination of these qualities. First, you need to display them that you are self-assured, confident, alpha male, experienced, and then you need to show other qualities. You have to show a nice combination of these qualities, showing first set of qualities will help you attract women, but for a limited time. Likewise, if you show the second set of qualities without showing the first set of qualities, you will into a friend zone of women.
- Be sociable and show women your social proof. Show them that you have a good circle of friends. Tell them stories about your social experiences and show them you have social values. In addition, show your social experience and intelligence. Be careful and don’t appear to be showing off.
2: Avoid Being an On/Off Pick up Artist
Always be “ON” and avoid being an on/off pick up artist. A good pick up artist is always on and he plays the role everywhere. Be attractive for every woman you meet. Charm every girl like you’d charm her in a night club. Remember practice makes a man perfect. Also, be friendly to men. This way, you will be able to show that you are socially intelligent. This shows your high social values. Continuous practice will enable you to be attractive naturally. So, your mind will not have to make efforts to appear that way, as it will be good enough to do it naturally.
3: Set Your Goals
It is common for men to make sleeping with a woman or getting her phone number their main goal when they attend a party or a nightclub. These goals are too big for the first time attempt. You can get a woman into bed in first attempt only if you are lucky. The key for you at this point is to start with small goals. Sleeping with a woman might be your ultimate goal, but it is wise to start with small goal like having a conversation with her. It is wise to set small, realistic and achievable goals that you can easily achieve before thinking about your next goal. For example, set a small goal of making a group of women laugh. After achieving this goal, isolate one of them from that group. Set small goals and work on them to achieve them. This way, you will able to achieve your ultimate goal.
4: Get Out Into The Real World
It is the most important thing for becoming a perfect pick up artist. If you want to be successful with women, you need to spend more time into the real world, at places where you can easily find lots of women. You need to practice at such places. It’s the only way to become a successful pick up artist, because women will not come to you. An easy way to do so is to pick a good nightclub and just spend a lot of time there.
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